Tag: sex

• The Sex Drive

  “Never speak to me again,” I hiss through gritted teeth in the Crabapple’s parking lot. “Because you are immature and insincere.” I hang up my cell, hang up on Dan and his stupid voicemail message –  “I don’t know why you called this number, but you did.” I send a hectic text – “I never wanna…

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  May 31, 2014

  Buffalo, Dating, Nightlife, Sex, Uncategorized

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• THE GAY BAR: Unadulterated Back Door Access

  It’s Saturday night. Jaclyn, an acquaintance who I work with occasionally,  has invited me to a party. The party is being held at a well-known gay bar. Jaclyn has been dating the gay bar owner’s brother for quite a while. It’s the owner’s birthday. There is a celebration being held at his club. I take this…

  factorygirl87

  May 13, 2014

  Buffalo, Dating, Nightlife, Porn, Sex, Uncategorized

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• Naughty Secretary Wishes and Caviar Dreams

  The office wall clock strikes 8 a.m. I’m at my desk, polishing up an article about the Alden Senior Citizens Gospel Choir, with the working title “Never too old for Jesus, Christ.”  My editor just might like it. The draft left him speechless. Rubbing my bloodshot eyes, I consider making a fourth trip to the coffee…

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  April 15, 2014

  Buffalo, Dating, Nightlife, Porn, Sex, Uncategorized

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• Movie Date at the Video Liquidators Theatre

  My estranged friend and former colleague, Rory from Manitoba, has come for a visit.   We’re trying to decide what to do with our Saturday night. He has crossed the border with grace and elegance, so the least I can do is show him a proper Buffalo Night Out. “Listen, I had an idea yesterday, for my…

  factorygirl87

  March 24, 2014

  Buffalo, Dating, Nightlife, Porn, Sex, Uncategorized

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• From Drunken Makeout to True Love

  We are at DBGB’s, Jennifer and I, posted up at the bar. Suddenly, a kid who looks like a 21-year-old version of Drake, in a red t-shirt, wobbles up to us. “Isn’t that red dress a little excessive?!” he says to me, bobbing to and fro slowly, like a pendulum. “…It’s a Christmas party.” Then, he leans…

  factorygirl87

  March 21, 2014

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• Names Have Been Changed to Protect the Innocent

  A fire burns inside of #54. It’s a soft, welcoming cocoon of holiday cheer. Outside, snowflakes ferociously converge like bumblebees, and I hope Dan will get here soon. He’s my date for the night, to the Pearl Street Grill Christmas Party. I’m hoping that he gets here soon, because I’m ever-so-steadily sipping bourbon from a…

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  March 19, 2014

  Buffalo, Dating, Nightlife, Uncategorized

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